Law of Attraction
Do You Belong? I Hope Not!
I thought in my teens that "not belonging" was a bad thing. Now I realize that not belonging to the rules, expectations, and norms of others is what gives us all access to a miraculous life. I am the President of the Not Belonging Club. It's so great to "not belong." Why? Well, because we listen to the only thing that truly matters and that is our hearts (or God's meg...
Read more...Procrastination? No Such Thing!
Did you ever beat yourself up for procrastinating about some job/project/goal you decided you should have done? Well, that's too bad. Maybe I can help you with a more freeing perspective. The way I see it, you should be congratulating yourself for following your Cosmic GPS that told you things weren't lined up yet, so it wasn't time to take action. There is no such thing as procrast...
Read more...Got a Light? I Hope So!
I have a question for you. What is more important: 1. Shining your light to inspire hundreds or 2. Worrying about things out of your control because you think it is justified? It is not more virtuous to worry. After all, you rob us all of your magnificence when you do that. And frankly, we prefer you when you glow! How do you make the biggest difference in the world? Well, you make the biggest dif...
Read more...Difference of Opinion About What Is Best
I've been busy teaching two Get Out of Your Own Way courses, and I am just feeling so blessed. It truly is a privilege to help people wake up to their magnificence and just radiate who they really are. Which brings me to my point... My Get Out of Your Own Way™ course really is for the people who don't want to read or talk about their dreams anymore; they are ready to soar, to live in fu...
Read more...The Speed of Manifestation
Have you ever had a desire and then been really impatient about it showing up? If you assume that Creation always has your back, then you know that it is coming in perfect timing. Stop taking score. The Universe delivers faster than the speed of light, so if you are waiting for what you asked for, you are the only one with your foot on the brakes. Does the Universe judge you, assess your deserving...
Read more...Are You Icing a Mudpie with Your Affirmations?
Do you remember the guy on Saturday Night Live who used to pretend he was a personal growth Guru, and he would look in the mirror and say things like "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and gosh darn it people like me"? And do you also remember that you could tell that most of what he was saying wasn't true? The Universe can't deliver what you don't believe. Crea...
Read more...Ever Say, “I Don’t Have Time”?
Every once in a while, I get an email from someone who says that they read the Law of Attraction blogs on the weekends because they don't have time during the week. That's an amazing shot of "great vibes" to take in all at once! However, just consider that "I don't have time" is an illusion. It would be more powerful to say, "I choose not to read them until ...
Read more...When Someone “Lets You Down”
Do people let us down? Or is it we who forget to use our "cosmic GPS system" (our feelings) to assess whether we want to count on them in the first place? Sometimes we place expectations on people when really, based on where they are in their journey and who they've shown you they are, the expectations we have of them may be pretty unreasonable. So often, we wish that the people we ...
Read more...How to Fix Yourself Now
If you have been reading these Law of Attraction blogs in order to fix your broken life, today's the day to stop! Why? Because if you are in the energy of trying to fix something, that guarantees that your life will be endlessly broken in your perspective. Instead, look for blogs, books, and courses that inspire you—not the ones that identify your flaws. You are perfect! Find something that w...
Read more...The Issue Is Not the Issue
I was just talking to a friend about money. This friend has been focused on trying to "fix" the situation, putting a lot of attention on what they want, visioning, goals, dreams, and trying to do things that feel good in order to line up more money. No wonder it isn't working! We human beings are magnificent creatures that are extensions of the creative force that makes Milky Ways. ...
Read more...Too Many Things to Choose From?
I've been simplifying things in my life—and enjoying it quite a bit. I was speaking with a friend, and she was commenting on how many amazing courses, classes, books, and programs there are right now. She said that she wanted to do them all, but after further discussion, she realized that doing everything is not what brings her peace. When a million things present themselves to you and you wo...
Read more...Ever Been Overwhelmed?
Usually when you feel overwhelmed, you've forgotten to ask the General Manager of the Universe to delegate, mediate, and create for you. Do you ever try to do everything yourself? Is it because maybe you think no one else will do it like you do? Or you don't consider it might be done more easily another way? Or you forget to consider that if it doesn't feel good, then it isn't ...
Read more...Even Better Than You Thought!
I remember back in "the day" (I don't know what that means, but let's just go with it), I had very specific dreams about what I thought I should be doing. My life does not look much like my dreams right now. Am I bummed? Nope. Your specific goals and dreams aren't as important in quantum physics and to the Universe as the intent behind the dream. If you are looking for a w...
Read more...The One? Or The Clarifying One?
Yesterday I had a discussion with a woman about her relationships with men. She asked me how she could get rid of the confusion she had about finding someone special. My answer applies not only to finding "somone special" but also to finding a new job, friends, lovers, or work colleagues, so I thought I would share. People, jobs, projects that come into your life are either what I call &...
Read more...Manage the Ocean? Or Grab a Surfboard?
Times they are a changin'? So are you! Whether you like it or not, you are changing. Why? Because the intentions of the masses have shifted toward a huge desire for peace in our bodies and on the planet. So many people who tell me they "never get sick" are now (from their perspectives) getting sick. It is more likely that their cells are excavating the inconsistent vibrations from t...
Read more...You Are SO Worthy!
Your worthiness is not up for debate. Have you: Held a baby? Watched a baby sleep? Played with a puppy or a kitten? Seen a harvest moon or the stars on a clear night? Heard birds singing? Ridden a horse through the trees? Looked at the sparkes on a lake? Loved someone deeply? Been loved deeply? Breathed lately? Gotten your daily supply of water? Electricity? Calories? Air? The issue of...
Read more...Want to Help? But Not Being Heard?
Have you ever felt so darn good that you just want to spread the love to someone who doesn't want to hear it? Sometimes they are our friends or mothers, and sometimes they are the guys who are renovating our basement. I know, I know, every bone in your body wants to make them "see the light." But that's only because you allow it to make you feel bad, my friend. Trust their path...
Read more...Let It Flow, Let It Flow, Let It Flow!
I recently had an excellent new awareness. After a very busy weekend, I realized that I hold tension in my hips, and that the tension my hips are holding is related to trying to control things. Can't I just be perfect at last? If something is hard, that's because: 1. It isn't the right timing. 2. You are "shoulding" on yourself. or 3. You aren't in alignment with it y...
Read more...Don’t Take It Personally
Sometimes you might not be on the same page as another person. If you think they aren't liking you, you might get upset. Really, however, they are upset because they do love you; they just haven't found a way to communicate what they're trying to say in a way that demonstrates that. Isn't that refreshing? That's why they are upset—because they want to be connected, and the...
Read more...The Missing Peace
Isn't it amazing that your body will actually tell you through your symptoms that you do not have peace in your mind? It will. Do you know why it gives you a headache, neck, or shoulder tension, digestive issues, or poor sleep? It's because your body is trying to point out the thoughts/vibrations you are oozing that are out of alignment with the Truth. And what's the Truth? That the...
Read more...Oh, the Stress of It All!
I have so much to do today! It would be very easy to run around with the perspective that upcoming events are all that matters. They're the culmination of all the work I'm doing these days. That's not how I look at it, though. For me, the co-creative journey that is happening now—the building, making, connecting, and creating—is so much of the fun. The events I'm working toward...
Read more...There Is No Comparison
Yesterday I spent 4.59 minutes comparing myself to someone else. (Maybe you've done this, too?) I quickly came to the conclusion that comparing myself to anyone is a hilarious and absurd waste of energy. Here's why: The more energy you spend worrying about how you measure up to someone else's standards, the more you take energy away from becoming who you were meant to be. For the mo...
Read more...How’s Your Sense of Humor?
Have you ever gotten the giggles? I have, and one time it was in church when I was little. That didn't go over too well. I also got the giggles during a meeting when I worked at Procter & Gamble. In that case, everyone got infected with the giggles (I think we were all looking for some comic relief). So what is the big deal about laughing? Laughing is one of the most health-giving, energy...
Read more...Overwhelm Doesn’t Need to Last Long
What does overwhelm mean? Well, it literally means that you perceive that you have obligations that outweigh your ability to get them done. Your first mistake is the assumption that you do anything all by yourself. Aren't you and I an extension of the same thing that makes Milky Ways and galaxies? The only time you will ever feel overwhelmed is when you forget that fact. A feeling of overwhel...
Read more...Fixing Other People?
Have you ever seen a close friend or a family member struggle, and you yearned to step in and make a difference? Tonight at dinner, I had a wonderful chat with a friend about another lovely friend who is living with a whole bunch of drama. We all want to help her, but she is still not ready to receive. She feels safer in the drama. This is good for us to recognize, or we would be very frustrated. ...
Read more...It’s No Mistake!
Mistakes offer opportunties to see if you still have a sense of humor and to resolve any issues about proving yourself or being good enough. So are they really mistakes? Around here, we just assume that "issues" are simply miracles waiting to happen. There are no mistakes. There is just what happens in your life that you may or may not like. Now the crazy thing is the more time you spend...
Read more...Competition
I was reminded today that when we think we are not good enough, that is mostly in comparison to someone else. There is no competition because in the Universe's eyes, you are so far beyond good that "good enough" isn't even in the Universe's vocabulary when it comes to you. Competition did not exist until human beings invented the concept. Think of it this way: you will att...
Read more...The Key to Ease
I was recently being interviewed by a wonderful woman, and the audience got to ask questions. Several of the questions were so perfect! Here was one: "I am doing all the things that The Secret, Wayne Dyer, and so many other teachers have shared, but it all seems too effortful. How can I have the ease and joy you are talking about without all the work to stifle my limiting thoughts?" The ...
Read more...Thank Goodness for Symptoms
Your body always tells you when you are in or out of synch with your truth. No need to complain about your aches and pains! Instead, thank them for pointing out your incongruent beliefs or actions. Isn't it amazing how our bodies always tell us whether we are barking up the right "vibrational" tree or not? Sometimes we truly understand that, and sometimes it's hard to see what ...
Read more...Stop Taking Score, My Friend!
When you take score or judge what is coming your way, you presume that it is bad. If you wait a week, you usually find out it was just perfect. Just assume that's true every time. I had a client recently who came to me because she wanted a specific job. Her energy was moving, she was finding more and more peace every time, and then BAM! One day, her ego got in the way, and she stopped seeing ...
Read more...Hard or Easy—It’s Your Choice!
If things in your life appear a little off-centre, off-kilter, then maybe you need to stand up straighter. It's amazing how when you change you, things around you change and become more effortless. It's interesting; I was thinking about a meeting I had yesterday, in which someone had requested something of me, and I was judging and assessing whether that request was appropriate or not, a...
Read more...A Little Wisdom from Your Kids
If you have children, listen up. If you don't have children, this may help you make sense of your childhood. The default position for parenting is to "micromanage" your child's life—under the guise that it is for their highest good. But really, it is for our own sense of peace. Remember, children are already masters of happiness. Observe what they do, how they live, where their...
Read more...Not Getting What You Asked For?
Law of Attraction takes effort. Becoming who you are is inevitable and effortless. You will manifest according to who you are, not necessarily according to what you ask for. I thought I might take you beyond Law of Attraction today.Why learn Law of Attraction if there is more? You see, my friend, Law of Attraction says that what you put your attention on comes to you—and Law of Allowing says that ...
Read more...Taking Score?
Sometimes we take score too soon. You see, if you keep your eye on the ball of your dreams, you will see that everything comes in perfect timing—which is not necessarily your timing. I recently got an email from someone who had a couple of pieces of unusual news, and one from another person who thought her husband didn't love her because she did not get a syropy email on Valentine's Day....
Read more...Thanks to You All—and Why That Matters
Today, I am abundantly grateful for you—for you doing your part to bring yourself to a new level of fulfillment, connection, and peace. There are family members, workmates, and people in the Third World being uplifted at this moment because you chose to remember who you are. So on behalf of the rest of us, thanks.It is interesting to me how much people chat about what is not going right. I was rec...
Read more...Loving Your Family
If you love your family, wonderful. If they bug you, still love them, because they are teachers. If they have been unfit in some way, then you have already manifested the family you need—and they aren't related to you. If you can't love your family from near, just love them from afar. They can feel it. No drama necessary. And if you can love them from near, then love them with all of you...
Read more...Living with “Shoulds” and “Have to’s”?
Have you ever set a goal and then struggled to achieve it? Maybe because you made it so big that it scares you, or maybe because you think there is something wrong, and the goal is to fix it? Well, neither one of these formats for goal setting is particularly inspiring. It will make things far more difficult to attain because quantum physics responds most powerfully to things that come from inspir...
Read more...Age Schmage!
You're only getting old if you say so. Old is not a chronological state; it's a psychological state. You are not your mother, you are not your grandfather. You are your thoughts. Your cells follow your beliefs, not general societal norms. Is it time for an anti-aging thought makeover? Well if it is, then let's call it a Pro-Vitality Life Makeover. You get to say how it goes. Your ce...
Read more...What’s the Deal with Stress?
I was noticing this weekend how much stress I hold in my hips and lower back when I think about all the things I believe I have to do. The interesting thing is that I am the one that made up most of the things that I percieve I have to do. So is the solution to change my goals? Or is the solution to have a better perspective? Or both? Here's the deal, my friend: If you truly knew how limitles...
Read more...Excellent News
On the plane the other day, I was sitting next to a lovely professor who works as a scientist in fisheries. He talked to me about the hope he has for the planet, and the fact that he volunteers on committees that help enhance the environment, and that most of his colleagues do as well. It was inspiring. It got me thinking about the abundance of good people out there. The Good News: My experience i...
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