Experiencing Sweet Love

The paradigm of learning lessons, finding love and feeling at peace through the contrast of pain and suffering is an option. And it's just an option. There are others." Jennifer Hough

We've held it for a long time that we wouldn't know happiness unless we also knew unhappiness. That perspective is perhaps, simply a paradigm that gave us peace because we had no other way of explaining why perceptively 'bad' things would happen to a Divine Child of God. How about this as another explanation:
 
Your flow: The time for suffering was when we were still living a Karmic reality where we had to make up for "past wrongs." Now we are coming into a time where there is an opportunity to experience ourselves as life sees us - free, loved and creative. In that freedom, we can experience suffering if we wish as a 'fascinating option', but it is not necessary and it is not necessarily bad. It's just an option.

Let Go of the Oars: Ask yourself: Do I justify my suffering as a tool for learning? Am I open to learning simply with grace and Divine circumstances? Am I willing to have the same circumstances and stop suffering as a choice?  I'm just saying.

Let go of your expectations and stop judging what exists. That is the first law of the end of suffering.